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The Best Time To Visit Your Church Members

April 30, 2015 Rodlie Ortiz, D.Min.

Do you know when the best time is to visit your church members?

A few months ago I did a little experiment.

After the church service was over with, I told my wife that I was going to hang out a little longer. She left with the boys and I sat there in my pew. I didn’t have any appointments to meet with anyone. I just sat there. And sure enough, people began seeking me out to talk. Some of the conversations were from people that had been meaning to call me to set up a time for an appointment. Some of the conversations were from people that just saw me and wanted to talk. In subsequent weeks I also noticed that this became a great way for me to seek others out and approach them; people I hadn’t seen in awhile or needed to catch up with.

I’m convinced that the time after a church service is some of the most valuable pastoral ministry and visitation time there is. So here’s what I recommend:

Seek to be one of the last people to leave the church after a service.

In my previous church, we would have a weekly lunch after the service. Before I ever sat down to eat, I would walk around every table and say hi to people and catch up with others in the lobby. Then, after things had thinned out and I had greeted most of the people, I would grab my plate that would be graciously set aside for me.

Ok, sometimes I have to run out quickly for one reason or the other, but the truth is that most of the times I take my time.

So hang out.

Be available.

Don’t be in a rush.

I think you’ll find that it will be a fruitful time.

[image by chrisdonia]

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About Rodlie Ortiz, D.Min.

On the pastoral team at Pioneer Memorial Church on the campus of Andrews University. Tech geek.

Comments

  1. Wuillene Paul says

    May 1, 2015 at 7:59 pm

    That’s one of the things that attracted me to Carrollwood. I appreciated the time you took to mingle with the members.

    • Rodlie Ortiz says

      May 1, 2015 at 8:02 pm

      Thanks, Wuillene! Miss you all.

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